Couples Coaching

Couples Clinical Christian Coaching

As a psychodynamic coach with graduate-level clinical training lead by the Holy Spirit, I recognize relational patterns with precision that other Christian coaches miss. The Holy Spirit guides this process, illuminating the unconscious dynamics keeping you trapped in cycles of disconnection.

Your relationship reveals unconscious patterns formed long before you met each other. When tensions rise, your nervous system automatically responds not by conscious choice, but through attachment systems established in your earliest connections.

What Makes This My Method Unique

Clinical Precision with Christian Values

Unlike traditional Christian counseling, I observe and identify the attachment dynamics, defense mechanisms, and transference reactions driving your relationship challenges. Your nervous system was designed by God with specific relational capabilities. When these relational systems become dysregulated, psychodynamic insight through the lens of the Holy Spirit provides an exceptional healing experience. You and your partner can look forward to experiencing one another in a vulnerable and resilient way.

In our sessions, you experience how the Holy Spirit reveals these patterns in moments of realization. Many couples find themselves reacting from fear-based attachment patterns rather than responding from love. I will show you how to begin overwriting the detrimental scripts that play on repeat in your subconscious mind.

Three Key Transformations You’ll Experience

1. Recognition of God’s Design for Attachment: Your attachment patterns directly impact your ability to experience the secure connection God designed for intimate relationship. Through psychodynamic coaching, you recognize how early experiences shaped your current reactions, and how God’s original design provides the blueprint for healing.
2. Holy Spirit Leading in Pattern Transformation: When you project parts of your past experience onto your partner (what psychodynamic theory calls projective identification), the Holy Spirit provides discernment, revealing how these unconscious projections create the very experiences you want to avoid. This awareness creates space for the renewal of your mind and relationship.
3. Understanding Clinical Insight Through Christian Values: You discover how differentiation (maintaining self while staying connected) reflects God’s original design for relationship. You and your partner can be unique individuals united in love without losing your distinct identities. This psychodynamic principle perfectly aligns with God’s creation intent and provides a framework for transformation through vulnerable resilience.

Is This Approach Right for You?

Clinical Christian Coaching creates transformation for Christian couples experiencing:

• Repetitive conflicts that continue despite great effort
• Emotional reactivity that feels beyond your control
• Communication patterns that create distance rather than connection
• A sense that God is calling you to deeper intimacy but there is a block to connection

Unlike typical Christian counseling or secular therapy, my approach identifies the unconscious patterns keeping you trapped while seeing God’s leading in your relationship as paramount. You experience the precision of psychodynamic insight within a framework of biblical principles.

Begin Your Transformation

When you schedule your couples coaching session, you are taking the first step toward recognizing how God is leading in your relationship. The transformation begins with a recognition of patterns happening right now. You can book a session below, or feel free to connect with me if you have any questions.